Family, Inpsiration, Myself

Social Silence

untitled1Last few weeks, I am trying something that I have done in the past with great results, but then I go back to it. I deleted all social media apps from my fun, and the relief I felt is hard to describe.  The firehose of negativity suddenly dimmed in my social media life, and I cannot tell you how light and relieved I feel.  That’s not to say I am not going on Facebook, but since its now only desktop based, I check it in the mornings and then am done for the rest of the day. It feels like a controlled fire where it’s manageable, and I am less inclined to feel overwhelmed with the deluge of information and mindless scrolling.

The main benefit is to be stop being annoyed at those who post a lot. That negative conversation has gone from my head. I don’t know if this is avoidance or getting less attached to the phone which because now I only have Words with Friends, and can only look at it so often when there is not social media, no real distraction. The other benefit, less picking up of the phone during conversations with others,  let capturing of activities for others to see how much “fun” I am having. Less ignoring others to look at my phone.

The urge to look at the phone fades, and to interact with others increases. It is not a perfect solution, but it’s one that works for me. The lightness I feel daily is hard to explain except to say that I no longer feel I carry the burden to know everything about others or events. I get to focus on what matters to me for now.  And that’s enough.

1 thought on “Social Silence”

  1. I tried this last week, didn’t delete but logged out of facebook and Instagram on my phone, only checking Twitter because it’s great for news and I’m a news junkie! It’s amazing, logging in after a few days and realizing I really didn’t miss much! So many hours each day wasted scrolling Facebook news feed, time can is so much more valuable spent elsewhere, like on people, or work, or discovering new/old music. It was during the week that i discovered Pink Floyd! Wow! I’m so grateful.

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