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Impromptu

Sanjay Sabarwal

This word has been stuck in my head ever since I began using Fathom AI which automatically takes notes for my business zoom meetings and then transcribes them into notes but the subject heading is always Impromptu meeting which got me thinking. So much of my life is impromptu. Take for example, me taking Zyan to the park twice this weekend and then SkyZone or the friends get together we had last night which included drinks, UNO and plenty of food and laughter.

There was a time I dreaded the unknown, wanting all my time to be structured, but more and more I see the value of just doing something out of the blue just for the sake of doing it. More often that not, it turns out to be well worth the time and experience. This weekend contained so many unplanned events, but the memories created warm up my soul. I see how it deepens the connections between my friends and family but most importantly it allows my wife and I to work as a team to have experiences that make for easy smiles.

Without her support, much of the weekend would not have happened. In a way, she is the Fathom in the marriage, the one who puts it all together, making it look easy when each impromptu thing takes time, patience but most of all acceptance. Sure, I created the impromptu but she made it look easy, fun, and something to look back on gratefully. I can’t wait to see what we come up with next.

Thank you Babu, the one who makes impromptu look easy!

Food For Thought, Inpsiration, My Past, Myself

Checking In

Sanjay Sabarwal

If you are friends with me on Facebook then you have recently seen an upsurge in my Yelp check ins.I always check in with a tinge of shame and guilt. The shame is usually that I feel as if I am bragging about what a great life I have, and guilt that perhaps I shouldn’t be posting so much. And why Yelp?  First off, it’s because I only check into places I enjoy and want others to have the same experience, and secondly any commentary I put there is because I want the people I am with know how much their company means to. These past few days have meant a lot as I was lucky enough to meet so many I care about.

Then there are also the non-yelp moments where I couldn’t check in.  A beautiful one hour conversation with an old friend in New York.  We have managed to keep going for almost two decades this way. And watching Star Wars on Kodi and then breaking into tears as I missed my father intensely to the self-loathing I feel for not doing more to better my life. The anger from an argument where it felt easier to blame another when in fact, they are a mirror into my life.

So don’t just look at the check ins and picture a wondrous life because the reality is that while the check ins are happy moments, they are plenty of emotional states one doesn’t get to see.

Diet, Myself

Locks: A Blog Post

Sanjay Sabarwal

by Jemal Yarbrough

It amazes me how freeing it can be when you acknowledge the locks you have in your life.  From hesitating on working out in the mornings to blindly charging over $100 in Starbucks coffee, I am slowly seeing the things that are holding me captive to a financial flat line.  I see the locks now, and now each action of mine is becoming deliberative and it hurts my heart to see how much I have wasted on value-less items.  It was is I was filling up my world with things to give myself value when deep down I knew that my worth was more than the blue tooth headphones I use at the gym.

Marriage can do that to you.  Sharing finances with someone who I love so much was scary at first but her kindness and gentle humor at the silly things I used to spend as loosened the lock of fear I had.  Now I just have to stick to a budget so we can truly accomplish the things we want most in this world: security, charity and maturity.